That someone you want to bang! that is not your other half

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by starfly (99956) on Monday, 24-Jan-2011 8:49:24

How many of you have that someone you know outside of ther person your with that man! you would love to give them a ride! Hm... just to see if there all that in the sack. Well post on and have fun.

Post 2 by butterfly star (Generic Zoner) on Monday, 24-Jan-2011 9:29:41

well u know what i would say on that and i know u too.

Post 3 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Monday, 24-Jan-2011 11:33:15

Ahem. I personally would love to bang/be banged by Jesse James just after the civil war (18-25 years old). I would've turned him my way. Heh

Post 4 by starfly (99956) on Monday, 24-Jan-2011 11:42:36

chuckles :)

Post 5 by forereel (Just posting.) on Monday, 24-Jan-2011 21:20:02

Um so come on couple say who, and why sense you both are posting? This doesn't apply to me, sense I don't have a half anymore. Smile.

Post 6 by starfly (99956) on Tuesday, 25-Jan-2011 11:58:12

SultryAngel, :) only if I were not with my wife at this time. Why, well... I will leave that fore you'll to ponder.

Post 7 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Tuesday, 25-Jan-2011 16:45:15

I'd take your wife, either with you being married or not.

Post 8 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Tuesday, 25-Jan-2011 16:46:41

oops, I forgot, Jess and kayla as well!

Post 9 by forereel (Just posting.) on Wednesday, 26-Jan-2011 0:54:46

He did say some you wanted as a maried person, so a single person wanting his wife doesn't count. Lol and him wanting sultryangel unmarried doesn't count either. Get her! Ladies turn? hehe.

Post 10 by disciple1211 (Newborn Zoner) on Thursday, 27-Jan-2011 11:28:01

While it may be inevitable that people in a relationship might have a desire to become involved with someone else it is best to not give in to those types of fantasies. Believe me, I understand the desire and how intense those feelings can sometimes get but giving into those thoughts causes you to objectify women. I have to remind myself that women are persons and giving into these fantasies allows us to perceive them as merely objects for our pleasure, and this is extremely dangerous.

Post 11 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Thursday, 27-Jan-2011 13:54:44

Hmm, does this go for men too? Kuz I know I ain't fanticizing bout no Betty Boop like my uncle obviously does. lol, Jesse James has always been a lover in the mind for me.

Post 12 by starfly (99956) on Thursday, 27-Jan-2011 16:08:04

disciple1211 I was only trying to have fun with this topic!; board at work and that is about it. So while your advice is appreciated no I will not go and brake my wife's heart and do something stupid like cheet on her.

Post 13 by musicgirl (Veteran Zoner) on Friday, 28-Jan-2011 19:58:48

Well this is my opinion. People can have all the fun they want joking about stuff like this, but I think if you're in a relationship, especially married, you shouldn't even joke about stuff like this outloud. If you have any fantacies/desires outside the relationship you should keep them to yourself and try to push them out of your thoughts. Or if you're someone who talks about that stuff with your partner for fun and they don't mind joking about it then that's you for it. Not meaning to be uptight but personally I wouldn't want to come on here or any other board post and find my husband/boyfriend talking about who they'd like to fuck if they weren't with me. Just my thoughts...

Post 14 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Saturday, 29-Jan-2011 10:32:30

I'm by the same way as musicgirl is. Up to a commitment, I'll be having fun. but after committing a relationship with someone, I won't. I won't like my partner/gf if she does the same.

that's me.

Raaj.

Post 15 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 01-Feb-2011 0:30:25

Oh, my. Some couples actually practice swapping and say it makes their relationships stronger, because their is no need to want, so no temtation. It is honest, open, and home is where they stay. But I am sure he told his wife before he posted, because she has posted to his board. Smile.
Peace.

Post 16 by starfly (99956) on Tuesday, 01-Feb-2011 16:54:09

shoot! its not like I am going to go out and bang this lady! man talk about screwing up my marrige. Hell na!!

Post 17 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Tuesday, 01-Feb-2011 21:33:07

Wait, which Jessica, Shawn? Lol.

Post 18 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 01-Feb-2011 22:11:55

Well as far as I'm concerned, fanticizing means nothing but preparation. If he's fanticizing about another woman, whatever. What does that bitch have on me? I get him for real. So say what you will about fanticizing men. At the end of the day, the jealous, insecure wives are the ones who freak out over the slightest sexual fanticies.

Jessie

Post 19 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Wednesday, 02-Feb-2011 0:04:32

both?? lol... but that was directed at rebel...
where'd you come from?? grin

Post 20 by squidwardqtentacles (I just keep on posting!) on Wednesday, 02-Feb-2011 14:36:01

IMO,fantasizing is one thing, if the person with the fantasy doesn't act on it. Human beings are human beings, and we'd all have to be dead to not notice attractive members of the opposite sex. If someone is married & acts on fantasy, though, that's another matter, the old adage about chasing two rabbits & both getting away. So fantasize on, and post under this thread or opt to keep it to yourself...

Post 21 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Wednesday, 02-Feb-2011 16:08:09

very well said, musicgirl. agreed 100%.

Post 22 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 02-Feb-2011 19:05:41

I agree with post 20, and yes, fanticies are no harm if they're not brought to life. I ain't intimidated by some bitch in a magazine, or on tv. Really, what do I have to fear? And if I do feel threatened by one of those girls, it just shows how secure I am in our relationship, and in myself, for that matter.

Lol, awww thank you much Shawn. Jessie Rebel happens to be the sexiest fucking Jessica up on this bitch, mkay? Heh

Jessie

Post 23 by starfly (99956) on Thursday, 03-Feb-2011 14:55:55

:) is all I have too say!.

Post 24 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Thursday, 03-Feb-2011 20:50:55

Shawn, I'm sneaky like that, I show up when you least expect it, grins.